Showing posts with label Lafayette College. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lafayette College. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Betting on Love

February 16, 1985
Colton Chapel
Lafayette College
Two Weeks.  That was the longest any of Steven's SAE Fraternity brothers were willing to bet on the staying power of his newest relationship.

As Steven likes to tell it, back then we were both students at Lafayette College and both on the Dean's List. Only, I was on the right one. And it was true we did have some interesting (and at times perplexing) run-ins with professors and administrators.

February 16, 2014
Methodist Hospital
Memphis, TN
In the local supermarket, one crisp autumn Saturday, Dr Pope, Chair of the Religion Department and ironically a Protestant, greeted us with,"Good Morning, Marianne" - look of astonishment- "What are you doing with him?"

There was also that time Steven and I took a walk about the quad, and Registrar Cyrus Fleck strolled past.  He glanced sideways, tipped his hat. "Good morning, Marianne."  Then stared straight ahead. "Mr. Gage."

I suppose we were an odd couple.  But I found something fundamentally good and lovable in Steven and he returned love for love.
November 2010
Germany

Truth be told, his love was deeper and stronger.  That's why, two blinks of the eye, four children, eight major moves, richer-poorer, in sickness and in health, for better or worse, thirty years later we're still together.

Anyone care to hedge their bets on the next thirty?

Sunday, November 23, 2014

Football, The Rivalry and the Three Last Things






The Rivalry is a college football game played by two institutions located seventeen miles apart in eastern  Pennsylvania: Lehigh University Mountain Hawks and the Lafayette College Leopards (my alma mater as well as my sister's, my brother's, my niece's, my husband's and father-in-law's). It is the most-played football rivalry in the nation and the longest uninterrupted annual rivalry series. As of 2014, "The Rivalry" has been played 150 times.

I mention this above in such detail because here in Mississippi, as in Texas or Alabama or Indiana, my neighbors would be incredulous that The Rivalry did not involve their local teams.

But it doesn't and  it is so old it predates football trophies; the winning team just gets to keep the game ball. These are painted with the score and displayed in winning institution's hall of fame or in the case of Lafayette, President's house. 
In 2012, prior to the 148th game, the presidents of Lafayette College and Lehigh University jointly announced that the 150th game would be played on November 2, 2014 in Yankee Stadium. Forty-eight thousand two-hundred fifty-six Pard and Hawk fans showed up.

Looking at the FB photos of my classmates and friends in that near-capacity crowd got me thinking of this 150 year-old tradition in the context of a larger one.  For those of us who profess to be Roman Catholics, Sunday November 3rd, the day after the big game, was the feast of Christ the King, and the end of what the Church calls Ordinary Time (The liturgical calendar of the Roman Catholic Church begins with Advent).

For weeks now we’ve been listening to Scripture readings and homilies on the last things:  Judgment, Heaven, and Hell. And obtaining Heaven, as St. Paul might say, is akin to winning the big race, the prize.

Here in Northern Mississippi, the Priests of the Sacred Heart tend to focus on challenging their flocks to do something with our lives, something, as Mother Theresa would say, beautiful for Christ. Something that says “I am what I believe” and “I believe you (the stranger, the child, the outcast, the lonely, the sick) are worthy of my time, my talent, my treasure, my inconvenience. And you are worthy of such gifts without question, without cost, without return, without blame, without judgment, without exception."

It’s a hard teaching, and one that I'm not convinced is humanly possible.

Certainly there in the stands, enjoying The Rivalry, were business executives and leaders, professionals, entrepreneurs, the rich and the wealthy, the privileged.  With its annual tuition and fees adding up to nearly $60,000, Lafayette has a healthy share of students and alumni from the top earners in the United States.  That in itself is of little importance.  What is important is to what end do we use this education? Is that end "love?"

The Rivalry has endured for one and a half centuries. It’s classic American fun and games.

Us against them. Pick  a side. A winner and a loser.

Pardee Hall
I hope we Pards have welcomed the stranger, fed the hungry, clothed the naked, visited the sick. And that we did so, and continue to do so, without counting the cost.

That’s us with them.  No taking sides.  No losers.

Yesterday the Pards won, 27-7.  I hope you all enjoyed it. 
I hope you all win the big race too.

We’ll gather by the twilight’s glow,
In front of old Pardee,In all the world no other scene,
So fair so dear to me.

Friday, June 27, 2014

Taking in the View

I'm taking a siesta from blogging this month. Instead I am offering a list of some of my favorite spots from the many places I've lived in these United States.


NEW JERSEY:  A quaint little town called Basking Ridge - because MaMa lived there and everyone loves their grandma.

OREGON:  Sunset over Coos Bay and the Oregon Institute of Marine Biology

PENNSYLVANIA:  Easton - because I loved being a student at Lafayette College, because I married Steven there and because after a few years we moved back.  "Old Orchard" - because my kids were little here and the grandparents lived nearby and we had great neighbors.

DELAWARE:  Rehoboth Beach in the 1980's because we were staying with friends who are still friends to this day.

ALABAMA:  Look up.  It's just like the song says "[where] the skies are so blue."

INDIANA: The State Park System, particularly Turkey Run and Shades, where I first put my wild-flower identification skills and that college botany class to good use.  Our circa. 1890 home on Wabash Avenue.

TEXAS:   Anywhere during the spring where the bluebonnets and the Indian paintbrushes bloom. Palo Duro canyon in the Texas Panhandle: breath-taking beauty and rich history.  My postage stamp pretty home on Tonkawa Lake.

NEW YORK:  The Finger Lake region for the obvious: gorgeous, crystal-clear lakes and an abundance of wineries.  Also the Skaneateles Festival (held throughout the month of August) with its world-class musical offerings.

MISSISSIPPI:  still looking for the blessing.....it must be here somewhere.